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Delivered Doesn’t Mean Received
Let’s get real for a second: everyone says they want feedback. It’s a leadership buzzword, a staple of performance reviews, and often the go-to topic in team workshops. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: most feedback goes in one ear and out the other.
We nod along, promise to “take it on board,” and then… nothing. And guess what? When nothing happens, people notice!
Think of feedback as a gift. If someone hands you a beautifully wrapped box and you toss it in the closet unopened, how likely are they to give you another one? Exactly. Feedback isn’t just about having a polite conversation, it’s about what happens next.
In this post, we’re unpacking why actioning feedback is the secret sauce of effective leadership. We’ll explore how failing to act on feedback can erode trust, why it’s crucial for building a strong feedback culture, and the simple steps you can take to ensure feedback doesn’t gather dust.
When you don’t act on feedback, you’re basically telling the giver, “Thanks, but no thanks.” Even if that’s not what you meant, that’s how it lands. Let’s break it down:
Fast forward three months, and guess what? The exact same unclear comms go out. The feedback giver is left rolling their eyes, thinking, “Here we go again.” Trust takes a nosedive. Now you’re not just unreliable—you’re the leader who nods along but never actually does anything. Not a great look.
Want some proof? Research by Gallup shows that a staggering 70% of employees feel their feedback is ignored, according to studies on workplace engagement and culture. Let that sink in.
Seven out of ten people are taking the time to share insights, only to watch their efforts vanish into the abyss. And you know what follows that? Disengagement, frustration, and a complete breakdown in trust.
And trust? That’s the glue that holds strong teams together. Without it, even the best feedback culture will crumble.
A feedback culture isn’t just about having a suggestion box or nodding politely in meetings. It’s about creating a loop: listen to the feedback > act on it > and show the results. When leaders walk the talk, it sets the tone for everyone else. Suddenly, feedback isn’t this awkward chore—it’s just how things get better.
Let’s be real: feedback without action is like a treadmill you never use. Sure, it’s there, but nothing’s actually improving. Acting on feedback isn’t just about being nice. It’s about results better communication, smarter decisions, and a team that’s inspired to grow because they see their leader doing the same.
Here’s the deal: hearing feedback and actually listening to it are two very different things. If you’re nodding while mentally drafting your to-do list, you’re doing it wrong. Instead:
When you listen like you mean it, you’re showing respect, and that’s half the battle.
No one wants to hear, “Thank you for your valuable input; I’ll take it under advisement.” Ugh. Instead, try this:
Acknowledging feedback isn’t just polite it’s how you show people their input matters.
This is where the rubber meets the road. If you’re not following through, you’re just paying lip service. Here’s how to do it right:
The key is to make your actions visible. When people see you’re serious about improving, they’ll be more willing to share feedback in the future.
Feedback isn’t just about having a conversation. It’s about sparking change. Leaders who act on feedback build trust, set the tone for their teams, and get better results.
So, next time someone gives you feedback, don’t just nod and smile. Listen, reflect, and most importantly, do something about it. Because the real magic of feedback isn’t in the giving or receiving... it’s in the doing.
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